“Fuck you, Dean Spanos.” – a quote from me
(Go ahead and get pumped up; not because this will be a good article, but because, fuck you, Dean Spanos.)
Furthermore, that is the last time I will type or say that name.
This website has gone dark, for the most part, since the announcement that the Chargers’ owner is taking the team from San Diego and moving it to the Los Angeles area.
Words cannot describe the feeling, or lack thereof, when the announcement was made; when it was no longer speculation and it had finally come to its dreadful, final fruition.
Could this be real?
Oh, it’s real. It is really, really real.
I still have no clue what I am going to do as far as whether or not I will still be a Chargers fan. But, I do not think it matters to you at all.
Because it shouldn’t.
It shouldn’t matter at all.
IT SHOULDN’T MATTER AT ALL WHAT ANY OTHER FAN DECIDES TO DO OR HAS ALREADY DECIDED TO DO REGARDING THE CHARGERS MOVING.
Please forgive me for using all capitals on that. Apparently I channeled my inner-Vinny Ibarra.
Dear Lord, please forgive me.
The frustration I am feeling while watching “Chargers fans” bicker like a bunch of idiotic, immature derelicts is incomprehensible.
Or is it?
I could NOT care less whether or not you used to be a Chargers fan, are a Chargers fan currently or you want to be a Chargers fan in the future.
Why is that, you ask?
Because that is none of my damn business.
And when it comes to the team allegiance of other fans, it’s none of your damn business, either.
Mind your own damn business, I guess.
We all grieve differently. Everyone deserves and has earned the right to exercise said grieving in any way they see fit, seeing as it’s done in a semi-responsible manner, so to speak.
Burning your jerseys, memorabilia and other collectibles, though I cannot imagine doing so knowing there are so many people out there who would LOVE to have it, is also NONE OF MY DAMN BUSINESS.
Please afford all fans, regardless of what type of fan or how long they have supported “their” team, the opportunity to deal with it on their own terms.
Please know that if you feel as though you have no other choice but to follow the Chargers to Los Angeles, YOU ARE RIGHT.
No matter what you are feeling regarding the owner of the Chargers, please know that YOU ARE RIGHT.
For those of you who are refusing to support/follow the Chargers as they relocate to L.A., YOU ARE RIGHT.
For those of you who represent your city first and could not fathom supporting the Chargers now, YOU ARE RIGHT.
For the people who cannot even imagine NOT supporting veterans like Philip Rivers, Antonio Gates, Danny Woodhead and others, regardless of where they play football but they’re still with the Chargers, YOU ARE RIGHT.
For guys who are like Jason “Moose” Ciano, throwing out 10 million what-if scenarios and one that eventually sticks, YOU WERE RIGHT AT LEAST THREE TIMES THAT I CAN THINK OF.
For those of you who wore Chargers gear home from the hospital at your birth in December of 1978 and your children did, too, in 2009 and 2011, respectively, because of how much a group of men playing a kids’ game mattered to you over for almost four decades of existence and you have no clue what you’re going to do regarding your favorite team in all of the land and that entity has only ranked behind my children and my ex-wife during my life, I AM RIGHT. (That got confusing, but deal with it.)
Shit. I don’t know if we want me to be right…
But I digress.
For Thomas Powell, one of my best friends in the entire world, who throws out 971,000,000 opinions on a daily basis and hopes that four stick, YOU WERE RIGHT AT LEAST 121 TIMES, total, ever.
Here’s the deal:
YOU ARE RIGHT.
NO MATTER WHAT YOU FEEL — Chargers fans of the past, present and/or future — YOU ARE RIGHT.
You are ALL right.
Please know that you are entitled to and deserve to feel however you want to feel.
But, most importantly…
Most important of all…
No matter how you feel about the Chargers relocating…
… fuck you, Dean Spanos. <—- that was the “real” last time I’ll use his name in print or audibly.
Can we all agree on that, please?
Leave a comment below stating why YOU ARE RIGHT for feeling the way you do about the Chargers being relocated.
Thanks a lot for reading.
P.S. For those of you who are still on the staff, thank you. For those of you who are not, thank you for all that you did while here; and that includes anyone who has ever been on the staff, for any amount of time.
My staff is why this website has been so successful, and hopefully I have done a good job of letting them know that.
Thank you all for your support.